Betrothal Gift Ceremony/ 过大礼 21 October 2016  九月初二十一 Around 9am, Mr Ang and his family brought a long list of betrothal gifts to my house. We just exchange the gift and pray to the ancestor. The whole ceremony took one hour. Wedding Day 5 November 2016 十月初六 4:00am – Wake up and get ready for… Read More


5 November 2016 Of late, Theravada Buddhist wedding ceremony has slowly become popular in Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia. This Theravada Buddhist wedding ceremony is  solemnised by Brother Punna Wong of Metta Lodge, Johor Bahru. The details of this ceremony can be referred in his book “Walking in the Buddha’s Footprints: 100 Reflective Essays”, page 205.… Read More


There  are many opinions about pre-wedding video. One party mentioned that it is a waste of time and money. No one will look at it after the wedding day. While, another opinion mentioned that it will a great memory for the newly wed couple. There are no right or wrong about which saying. It is… Read More


As part of Chinese wedding traditional ceremony, bride has a few bridesmaids to help her out on her big day. Same goes with my wedding planning. I am very happy to get my secondary school’s best friend, Qiao and cousin, Iris to help me out. What are Bridesmaids’ tasks? Taking care of bride’s personal belongings.… Read More


22 May 2015, Friday After 1 year of marriage, I have time to sit down and write out the ceremony. Happy 1 Year Anniversary.  Our ROM ceremony was a simple one. Dress preparation: White dress by my sister Shoes from Tiamo  (I bought it a few years ago) A white flower hair pin RM50.00 Makeup… Read More